What is consent?

Key points about consent:

1. It must be freely given: Consent should never be forced, pressured, or manipulated. Everyone has the right to say “no” at any time.
2. It must be clear: Consent means saying “yes” in a way that’s enthusiastic and unmistakable. Silence or lack of resistance does not mean consent.
3. It can be taken back: You can change your mind at any time, even if you said “yes” before.
4. It’s ongoing: Giving consent once doesn’t mean it applies to everything. You need to ask for consent each time.

Examples of consent:

• In friendships: Asking, “Can I borrow your things?” and respecting the answer.
• In romantic relationships: Asking, “Are you comfortable with this?” and stopping immediately if the other person says “no” or seems uncomfortable.
• Online: Asking permission before posting or sharing someone’s photos or private information.

Why is consent important?

• It shows respect: Asking for and respecting consent means you care about the other person’s feelings and boundaries.
• It builds trust: Clear and honest communication helps create healthy relationships.
• It prevents harm: Consent ensures everyone is comfortable, which helps avoid hurtful or unsafe situations.

How do you ask for consent?

Use questions like:

• “Is this okay with you?”

• “How do you feel about this?”

• “Do you want to stop or keep going?”

Pay attention to body language and tone. If someone looks uncomfortable or unsure, it’s important to pause and check in.

Remember!

Consent is not just a one-time thing – it’s an ongoing conversation. If someone doesn’t respect your consent, talk to a trusted adult for help and support.