Flirting online 

Have you met someone online? Exciting!  

Respect boundaries and keep it fun 

• Make sure the conversation is fun and mutual, finding common interests to talk about  
• Always trust your instincts it’s okay to step away from the conversation, if it doesn’t feel right 

How to stay safe 

Flirting and dating online can be fun and exciting, but there are things to be aware of. For example, there are people who might try to manipulate or deceive you, such as “groomers” who pretend to be your age but are actually adults, or loverboys. To flirt online and date safely, pay attention to the following: 

• Don’t add strangers as friends on social media 
• Customize your privacy settings so that strangers can’t view your profile or photos 
• Never give your address or phone number until you are absolutely sure the person is who they say they are 
• If someone seems suspicious online, or if you feel uncomfortable, break off contact and talk to someone you trust. You can also talk to someone at Bos di Hubentut, Ayudo pa Mucha I Hóben or Biba Amor  

Moving from online to real life  

If you’re thinking about online dating, here are some ways to do so comfortably: 

• Don’t promise anything before you meet someone in person- let things develop naturally 
• Let someone close to you (a friend, family member, or anyone you trust) know about your plans, including where and when you’re meeting 
• Bring your phone and charger so you can stay connected, and reach out to someone if things feel off. Make sure you have credit or data 
• Meet in a public place with lots of people around 
• Arrange for someone to check in on you during the date. If things aren’t going well, they can help you leave by calling with an emergency excuse